I know, I know. I shouldn't talk about guys. Well, I guess it's okay every once in a while. Specially when I want to speak what most women think but none dare to say it. So pay close attention because I am about to YELL what my heart feels. I hope you agree!
You were born into a woman. You hate corporal hair and find any possible way to get rid of it. You keep wanting to be taller and leaner. You wear makeup to try to hide all your imperfections. Your wardrobe has more clothes than it can hold but none of them fit you like you wish they would. Your purse holds a >huge and messy< feminine world inside of it where you can't even find your car keys. You have long and painful periods. You were meant to wash dishes, raise babies, please husbands, cook, clean clean clean, work work work, solve everybody's problems before your own, listen to everyone, give without asking for anything in return, love unconditionally, support your family, get married, maintain yourself the most ethereal possible throughout your love relationships, scare all female b**** "flies" away from your man, take care of grandparents and parents when they grow old, blah blah blah blah... in fact all of our lives are dedicated to someone else but ourselves. It's nice to say that helping others you are SOMEHOW helping yourself but, is it true? Is living everybody else's lives a way to reach inner happiness? Is all the suffering worth of being a woman? It's certain that only women have the greatest privilege of giving birth but we always need a piece of a male (sperms).
Guys vs. Girls If a woman burps she is a tomboy, if a guy burps it's funny. If a woman laughs loud she is irritating, if a guy laughs loud he looks even cuter. If a woman says a cuss word she doesn't have manners, if a guy says a cuss word it becomes famous. If a woman rests for a little bit she is lazy, if a guy sits for a little bit he is in deep thought. If a woman disagrees with something she is being selfish, if a guy disagrees with something he is expressing his point of view. If a woman cheats on her man she is a "W", if a guy cheats on his woman she must be a "W" with him. If a woman doesn't want to get married she is an open-legged, if a guy doesn't want to get married he must be an incredible and outstanding angel who wears a human disguise. And the list keeps and keeps on going. It's sooo unfair!!! But if you think about it, there are some good reasons to be a woman. 1. As a human you possess the right to ignore everybody and choose your own path. Although your friends and family say you are an egocentric human trash, you absolutely have the right to think about yourself. 2. Your smile can make any person fall in love with you. 3. You decide which bastard you want to date. 4. Your sweet puppy face makes miracles. 5. You wear high heels and put your hair down and turn into a stunning supermodel. I have to say that you were already a supermodel but you just add a little detail to become a STUNNING supermodel. :) 6. You only wear makeup to feel pleasure as you turn your head away from those sexy looks every single male gives you. 7. You choose when and why to have babies. I still need to think of more... Anyways, the point is: why males suck so badly? Well, it's not only because they always get the credit for everything women do, or for the fact that they are forgiven so many wrong things they do, or because if you take the cute words out of it the phrase says "women should be devoted to the male gender throughout their whole lives".Aggghhhhh! Men suck because they don't deserve all the greatness within us and that we tenderly place it on a silver platter in front of them. Men suck because they have so many divine women to choose from and still we are the ones who should take the first step. Men suck because everywhere we go, they are always on our minds when more important matters should be in their place. Men suck because when they look at us they make us feel butterflies in our bellies. Men suck because we care for them, because our human nature makes us need them so badly, because they make us feel complete, because we inevitably love them no matter what they did. Men suck because although they don't shower, shave or use deodorant, they cannot stop being cute. Men suck!!!!! Badly!!!!
Now if you ask for my own opinion I would say: Males suck because they are never enough. Males suck because they are always terrible at everything they do. Males suck because they always disappoint me. Males suck because they are all retarded. Males suck because they can never do anything for themselves. Males suck because they are mature enough when their hair turns white and they start losing their teeth. Males suck because they think we need them. Males suck because some brainless girls still fight for them against another brainless girl. Males suck because they steal our freedom as females and even as humans. Males suck because no matter what we do, we are always wrong. Males suck because we don't show them we love them the way they want to. Males suck because they think we are always available for them. Males suck because they think they govern our stupid minds. Yeah, I'm one of those rare women who date men for the simple pleasure of dumping them when they become useless. Cold-hearted? I prefer the terms MODERN and INDEPENDENT. If men do so with us then why shouldn't we do it with them. After all we are as free and as equal as they are, right? Do males suck for you?
PS. Males, I have nothing against you. I haven't got my heart broken or anything that would make me feel hatred towards men. I just believe it's time for us to show males the freedom they say we have. There's a song that says: If I was a woman I wouldn't get married I wouldn't wear any bra I wouldn't take any pill, let him take them And now that you know it Now take me with you Hahaha! It's a very nice song. In Spain La Quinta Estacion plays it but I think it was written by Joaquin Sabina.
Alright, So, First of all, Im a male, and I find this offensive. I find nothing against women. I think we should both be seen as two equal people. Now, Why do you bitch so much? Why do you tell other people your problems with men? Other people have no need to know. Some of this is not true and some of it is. Generalizations as large as that should not be made. You cant say that all males are like this in general. You are very ignorant if you think every man is like that. You just say that because you've probably just been with 1 male out of millions of other people that arent the same. The only reason you bitch is because of power. Power, power, power power.... Women have been put down for years but now, They have better rights then before and now your bitching about it? Thats complete bullshit for something you now have and what other women did not have before and couldn't do anything about it. In other countries women's dont have rights at all. Such as not being taught and other things. Women can be presidents, Doctors, Basically anything they want. But no, you are not helping the stereotype at all. What you say may offend OTHER women! Yes! Other women!! I bet you didn't think that some women find this offensive because they try to think of us as equal not as one better then the other. You shouldnt say things like this when there are worse things and men that arent like anything of what you just said.
Ps: Im 13 years old.
To begin with, I apologize for anything wrong I said about men. At no moment my opinion was meant to hurt or offend anybody. So first of all, I apologize. Like you seemed to request I am about to answer all your questions. May I proceed?
1-Thanks for letting me know your opinion. To be honest I was glad somebody finally dared to say something. Thank you. :)
2-The main purpose of my blog was to make fun of all the prejudices and stereotypes which actually still prevail in our society. You don't need to dig deep into it, just look around you and be honest. All these bullshit gets to the point where you cannot allow yourself to be taken too seriously. Make fun of things that make you mad! It's part of the sarcasm. Have you ever tried it?
3-I completely agree with you about both men and women be seen and treated as equal.
4-Why do I tell people my problems with men? I never mentioned any of my personal problems with men at least in this blog. Well, it's simple. I believe in my opinion and that's why I say it just as you wrote to me believing in yours. I think this is part of our freedom of speech. If you don't want to hear it, then don't do it. It can't be simpler than that. Agreed?
5-Yes, absolutely so many things are true and so many others are not. Again I never said all of them were true. It's my opinion, remember? It's my point of view towards the majority of the men I've known so far. Plus, nobody owns the truth, right?
6-I'm sorry for not being that specific and committing the crime of generalizing. Just because you suggested it, I am going to specify that 99% out of a 100% of men in this planet earth are like that. I am talking facts. I'm talking about my brothers and my seven guy friends who treat me as a tomboy and are honest enough to be like they all are. None of them have any feelings for me and I don't have any feelings for them. Luckily they don't wear any masks in front of me regarding their male behavior towards the opposite gender and their sisters. Do you have a sister? I thank that there are still exceptions but they are rarely seen. I hope you are one of those exceptions. I would be more that glad to keep talking to you.
7-Yes, it's a fact that there have been and still are so many women being put down just for the simple fact of being women. But, does that mean I should be satisfied for the few rights we have been given so far? Should I say "thank you men for being very kind with women for letting us be ourselves for once”, bow to them and walk away with my head down? I am sorry but I can't. I am never satisfied with the things I get. I always expect more because I know I can give more. Maybe that is my problem. I know I shouldn't expect good things out of people but I guess it runs in the family. I was raised this way in a society where once a woman gets married she turns into her husband's property and she has to follow him not as equal but as a "shut up and do it" and "don't even try to use the brain you don't have”. In both my mother countries this is an everyday thing. There are still places where women are raped and when they complain about it they are beaten up to death because they did something to force men to rape them. This is how unfair this society can be. Women should not let any of this happen.
8-Thank you for saying that women can do anything. Both men and women as humans are able to do anything we want. We can be anything and say anything but also a fact that is statistically proven: women earn less money than men, are always treated different from men, and things are harder to get for women than for men. Statistically proven in the labor force.
9-The issue is not helping the stereotype but getting rid of it. In fact there shouldn't be any stereotypes at all.
10-Last but not least. I don't see in what way my comments could offend any woman out there. The whole goal of my blog was to make both men and women realize what is going on around us in a funny way. I feel rage for letting men do that to us. We shouldn't be less or better but we should demand to be equal. I want to say one of the things I strongly believe in: women are treated with certain respect and patience that men are simply not, and I believe the same respect and tolerance should be given to both the male and female genders.
It's about being equal not better or worse. I think you completely misunderstood my blog. I was criticizing the society in which you, me and billions of people live not specifically men. I targeted my title on men because lately I have been seeing all this around me. And I just wanted to let all of those men who truly are like that know that we don't deserve it. We deserve better things than what they are giving us.
I know that at the end of my blog I added a little personal spice to wake reactions in the male readers and ask themselves if they belong to either that 99% or 1% of men in this world...
and for the female readers to stop letting all this to happen... we are the ones who draw a line for men to let them know where our limits are and how far we can let them go... but I guess something is happening that makes us erase that line and let all that abuse hurt us... badly
I hope this cleared all your doubts. If you want to keep talking, you are more than welcome to write. Thank you for your comments. It's nice to hear that some people still question others. Thanks.
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Alright, So, First of all, Im a male, and I find this offensive. I find nothing against women. I think we should both be seen as two equal people. Now, Why do you bitch so much? Why do you tell other people your problems with men? Other people have no need to know. Some of this is not true and some of it is. Generalizations as large as that should not be made. You cant say that all males are like this in general. You are very ignorant if you think every man is like that. You just say that because you've probably just been with 1 male out of millions of other people that arent the same. The only reason you bitch is because of power. Power, power, power power.... Women have been put down for years but now, They have better rights then before and now your bitching about it? Thats complete bullshit for something you now have and what other women did not have before and couldn't do anything about it. In other countries women's dont have rights at all. Such as not being taught and other things. Women can be presidents, Doctors, Basically anything they want. But no, you are not helping the stereotype at all. What you say may offend OTHER women! Yes! Other women!! I bet you didn't think that some women find this offensive because they try to think of us as equal not as one better then the other. You shouldnt say things like this when there are worse things and men that arent like anything of what you just said.
Ps: Im 13 years old.
To begin with, I apologize for anything wrong I said about men. At no moment my opinion was meant to hurt or offend anybody. So first of all, I apologize. Like you seemed to request I am about to answer all your questions. May I proceed?
1-Thanks for letting me know your opinion. To be honest I was glad somebody finally dared to say something. Thank you. :)
2-The main purpose of my blog was to make fun of all the prejudices and stereotypes which actually still prevail in our society. You don't need to dig deep into it, just look around you and be honest. All these bullshit gets to the point where you cannot allow yourself to be taken too seriously. Make fun of things that make you mad! It's part of the sarcasm. Have you ever tried it?
3-I completely agree with you about both men and women be seen and treated as equal.
4-Why do I tell people my problems with men? I never mentioned any of my personal problems with men at least in this blog. Well, it's simple. I believe in my opinion and that's why I say it just as you wrote to me believing in yours. I think this is part of our freedom of speech. If you don't want to hear it, then don't do it. It can't be simpler than that. Agreed?
5-Yes, absolutely so many things are true and so many others are not. Again I never said all of them were true. It's my opinion, remember? It's my point of view towards the majority of the men I've known so far. Plus, nobody owns the truth, right?
6-I'm sorry for not being that specific and committing the crime of generalizing. Just because you suggested it, I am going to specify that 99% out of a 100% of men in this planet earth are like that. I am talking facts. I'm talking about my brothers and my seven guy friends who treat me as a tomboy and are honest enough to be like they all are. None of them have any feelings for me and I don't have any feelings for them. Luckily they don't wear any masks in front of me regarding their male behavior towards the opposite gender and their sisters. Do you have a sister? I thank that there are still exceptions but they are rarely seen. I hope you are one of those exceptions. I would be more that glad to keep talking to you.
7-Yes, it's a fact that there have been and still are so many women being put down just for the simple fact of being women. But, does that mean I should be satisfied for the few rights we have been given so far? Should I say "thank you men for being very kind with women for letting us be ourselves for once”, bow to them and walk away with my head down? I am sorry but I can't. I am never satisfied with the things I get. I always expect more because I know I can give more. Maybe that is my problem. I know I shouldn't expect good things out of people but I guess it runs in the family. I was raised this way in a society where once a woman gets married she turns into her husband's property and she has to follow him not as equal but as a "shut up and do it" and "don't even try to use the brain you don't have”. In both my mother countries this is an everyday thing. There are still places where women are raped and when they complain about it they are beaten up to death because they did something to force men to rape them. This is how unfair this society can be. Women should not let any of this happen.
8-Thank you for saying that women can do anything. Both men and women as humans are able to do anything we want. We can be anything and say anything but also a fact that is statistically proven: women earn less money than men, are always treated different from men, and things are harder to get for women than for men. Statistically proven in the labor force.
9-The issue is not helping the stereotype but getting rid of it. In fact there shouldn't be any stereotypes at all.
10-Last but not least. I don't see in what way my comments could offend any woman out there. The whole goal of my blog was to make both men and women realize what is going on around us in a funny way. I feel rage for letting men do that to us. We shouldn't be less or better but we should demand to be equal. I want to say one of the things I strongly believe in: women are treated with certain respect and patience that men are simply not, and I believe the same respect and tolerance should be given to both the male and female genders.
It's about being equal not better or worse. I think you completely misunderstood my blog. I was criticizing the society in which you, me and billions of people live not specifically men. I targeted my title on men because lately I have been seeing all this around me. And I just wanted to let all of those men who truly are like that know that we don't deserve it. We deserve better things than what they are giving us.
I know that at the end of my blog I added a little personal spice to wake reactions in the male readers and ask themselves if they belong to either that 99% or 1% of men in this world...
and for the female readers to stop letting all this to happen... we are the ones who draw a line for men to let them know where our limits are and how far we can let them go... but I guess something is happening that makes us erase that line and let all that abuse hurt us... badly
I hope this cleared all your doubts. If you want to keep talking, you are more than welcome to write. Thank you for your comments. It's nice to hear that some people still question others. Thanks.
From the bottom of my heart, Vera.